One of the most interesting things that happens to us after age 50 or so is that we realize we will likely not live forever. That our days really are numbered, though, fortunately, we don’t know what that number is. This awakening allows us to get up and walk out of meaningless meetings and question relationships that may no longer be fulfilling. We see our time much more clearly and often get the courage to make changes in our lives.
The passing of Elizabeth Edwards brought that home with her moving and profound words on Facebook. What a modern way to share her thoughts – and I’m sharing them now as a gentle reminder of what she learned:
“The days of our lives, for all of us, are numbered. We know that. And yes, there are certainly times when we aren’t able to muster as much strength and patience as we would like. It’s called being human. But I have found that in the simple act of living with hope, and in the daily effort to have a positive impact in the world, the days I do have are made all the more meaningful and precious. And for that I am grateful.”
Elizabeth Edwards had the insight and courage to reject the mental anguish of dying and of an unfaithful husband as she had more living to do and these distractions took precious time and focus from her purpose. She redefined herself, her role in the world and her God to those more honest and fitting for the rest of her life. That is heroic.
I’ve often thought about role models for women our age and have had a hard time identifying many. But if I can emulate a bit of Elizabeth Edwards and share her spirit and strength, I know I can be a better person.
So, do something in the spirit of Elizabeth this week. Honor her by letting go of something that drains your energy, ardor or faith. Commit to something that supports what you believe in and gives hope. And do one thing today to live that commitment.
When we live with the grace, patience and character that she displayed when facing her limited future, we will truly make our numbered days better days.
What change will you make today to live a better life?
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Comment by Ruth
Posted on December 14, 2010 at 12:03 pm
Very inspiring post… I love your challenge to “do something in the spirit of Elizabeth this week.” Not only does it honor her… but it honors everyone who takes up that challenge. Thank you.
My first change is to play and listen to great music more instead of keeping the music off “just in case the work phone rings”.